You're considering a new career, new place to live, new
business, retirement, or any major life move. You ask, "Will
I be happy?" If you remember the old, old song, "What will
be" may not be the answer you're looking for.

There are no one-size-fits-all guidelines, but here are
five questions that can help you anticipate how you'll enjoy
what happens when you get to the other side.

1. "Did I choose to make this move or am I being pressured?"

When you feel in control, you are most likely to be happy
after you make a move. When you feel you have few or no
options, begin to explore strategies to regain your power.

2. "Am I moving to or moving from?"

We've all been tempted
to take a big leap and just leave whatever we'd like to
escape. Sometimes the results bring surprising rewards. When
you analyze what you want, rather than what you want to
leave, you can make more effective decisions about your next
career, city and business.

3. "Can I still be me?"

I live in a town where many people move specifically for
retirement. Some choose the most rural areas of the county,
assuming they'll find nirvana when they've left city life
behind. And many are miserable because they didn't realize
what they needed to be happy - more stimulation and
satisfaction than you can find from cactus and mountains.

4. "Does my happiness depend on somebody else?"

You move to be closer to your grandchildren - and they're
all grown up. You were hired by a manager who seemed to be
a great boss -- and he was gone by the time you arrived.
You can't prevent all surprises, but you can make
contingency plans and create safety nets.

5. "What options will I have three years after I make the
move? Five years?"

Will you have more opportunities than you do now?
Or will you feel trapped?

There's no way to predict what will happen, whether you turn
left or right at the fork in the road. But the odds are
something will change in three to five years. You'll be
different. Your professional field will be different. Your
workplace will be different.

And you'll be ready to make your *next* move.